I have been sober in SA for a little over four years. I would like to share some things that have worked for me as a single sexaholic:

1. I surrender relationships and my behavior with women to sponsorship. I rely on God to speak through my sponsor when it comes to my relations with women.
2. Give God total control of every area of my life. Let God manage the world around me and focus instead on changing myself. I can’t manage it myself.
3. Let go of my wants, except one—to do God’s will. Be content with what I have (need).
4. Keep focused on staying sober, staying in the moment and detaching from my misconnections—not escaping.

Women and sex are my drugs. I must find in God the comfort, love and relief I looked for from women, lust and sex. In order to do that I must find a new way of life.

It’s about action.