I like that SA is a mixed group. However, sometimes as a woman I feel there are double standards in SA around how to dress in meetings, especially as the weather gets warmer.

In my area, dress code is pretty loose by SA standards, but it seems like some people push even our loose standards. I see a lot of men wearing shorts in meetings that ride way above the knee when they sit. I have known of women being asked to leave meetings for wearing shorts!

While that was probably the wrong response of the group leader, I got the message loud and clear. I have never worn shorts that go above the knee to a meeting. Additionally, other articles of clothing I own would probably be inappropriate meeting attire. On days I attend meetings I try to dress according to what would be appropriate meeting wear. If I do wear something to a meeting I don’t feel is appropriate, I’ll bring a jacket to cover up and just sweat it out.

I would like people in general to be more aware and respectful in their attire at meetings. I am, also, grateful that I learned the tool of closing my eyes.