(in serial form)

Over three sober decades in SA there have been quite a few pieces of “bad news” for we sexaholics. They all arise, like our entire program, from our experience, strength and hope. Each issue of Essay under Practical Tools we’ll share some pieces of “bad news”:

• If I am disturbed, the problem is in me. I’d rather be serene than right.

• Other people’s opinion of me is none of my business. If I make their opinion of me my business, I go crazy!

• The most dangerous words that come into our minds are, “I can handle it.” This is always a lie.

• The temptation to lust does not disappear. The “hidden bottles” are in my head.