CFC

Family

I’m a sexaholic, married to the man who wrote the previous story. My husband is serving time in prison for crimes he committed while active in his sexaholism. Our story is one of hope. We’ve been told that we will never be a family again because of society’s laws and judgments—but we choose to see our family differently.

By |2024-09-09T14:59:12-05:00June 18, 2010|Comments Off on Family

Every Second Counts

My life has been a succession of moments, the next one always building on the results of this one, this one having resulted from the fruits of the last one, good or bad. In the past, I failed to understand the impact my decisions would have on my attitudes, habits, cravings, and expectations.

By |2024-07-27T22:41:48-05:00June 18, 2010|Comments Off on Every Second Counts

SA CFC

The CFC is planning to print a newsletter composed mostly of writings by SA members who are incarcerated. Usually prisoners in different facilities are forbidden to communicate with each other. The idea is for the CFC to act as a central receiving location for prisoner-produced articles.

By |2024-07-21T13:33:53-05:00March 21, 2010|Comments Off on SA CFC

SA CFC

It’s the third Friday meeting of the month in San Francisco. As usual, the room is quieted by a Step Five letter I’ve just read aloud. The letter was written by a prisoner we’ve never met. We’ve heard other prisoners’ stories, but none of the other crazy shares quite compares with this one.

By |2024-07-29T13:08:25-05:00September 26, 2009|Comments Off on SA CFC

Father’s Day

It’s Sunday afternoon and I’m having a great conversation with a fellow SA member about the Eighth and Ninth Steps and the amends letter he is trying to write to his wife. It’s not unusual for me to spend my Sunday afternoons this way, except that this one is happening in the visitation room at the state prison, and today is Father’s Day.

By |2024-07-29T13:08:21-05:00September 26, 2009|Comments Off on Father’s Day

Surrender

What a life. Great job. Tons of friends and a loving family. Oh, did I mention that I’m insane? Clueless and selfishly delusional, I spent years wreaking havoc on others while projecting the image of Superman. In early 2007, my addiction to Internet pornography landed me in jail.

By |2024-07-29T13:08:17-05:00September 26, 2009|Comments Off on Surrender

Why Am I Disturbed?

My name is Scott; I’m a recovering sexaholic serving a 6 1/2 to 13-year prison sentence for sexual abuse. It has been my great privilege to be a sober member of SA since March 24, 2006.

By |2024-07-29T13:08:11-05:00September 26, 2009|Comments Off on Why Am I Disturbed?

SA CFC

SACFC is dedicated to carrying the message of SA recovery to incarcerated sexaholics. We provide the literature commonly used for doing Twelve Step work to members, groups, and Intergroups who work with people in correctional facilities.

By |2024-07-29T13:09:35-05:00June 28, 2009|Comments Off on SA CFC

Three Days in Jail

On July 26, 2007 at 5:00 p.m., I was arrested in a small Southern city for propositioning an undercover police officer in a city park. I never wanted to go to that city again and legally can never be in one of their parks again. Last night, however, business travel took me there briefly.

By |2024-08-02T10:24:43-05:00June 28, 2009|Comments Off on Three Days in Jail

Sometimes Lust is Not About Sex

While in prison, some of my fellows and I found that we all spoke fondly of one particular board game from our youth. After recounting past glories, we sought to obtain a copy of the game.

By |2024-08-02T10:15:05-05:00June 28, 2009|Comments Off on Sometimes Lust is Not About Sex