Roland mentions in his article, “The Pursuit,” how honesty was vital in his new relationship with his wife. How important has honesty been in your recovery? Have you needed help in identifying when you have been dishonest? 

How have you dealt with the fear that can come up with needing to tell a difficult truth?

Has the amends process helped you become more honest in your life?

Have you ever “balked” on honesty, and if so, what was the outcome?

Roland also shares how he told the truth to his employer and what happened as a result. 

Have you experienced a situation where you told the truth at work, and if so, did a major consequence occur? Did you lean on your HP to see you through it?

Lastly, do you find that honesty produces courage? How so?

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