Hi, I’m Eugene K., a sexaholic. I’m 22 years old and came to SA in September 2024. When I saw the theme about Rule 62 (don’t take yourself too seriously), it reminded me of how I found my SA sponsor. Back when I was new, I had my eye on this one guy I thought would be a great sponsor. He’d been in the newcomers’ breakout meeting, and I thought, “This is the guy.” A few meetings later, I finally decided I should probably get a sponsor, so I started looking for him after the meeting.

In the parking lot, I saw someone who looked just like him—or so I thought because he had the same bald spot. So I walked right up, confidently called him by the name of the guy I’d met before, and… he corrected me. Turns out, I had the wrong bald guy. But here’s the kicker: I just rolled with it and asked this bald guy if he’d sponsor me. He’s now my sponsor, and that’s how I started working the Steps. A clear case of mistaken identity, but hey, it worked out!

Lately, I’ve been noticing that it’s easy for me to fall into the mindset that SA is only about working the Steps and going to meetings. But it’s more than just treatment for my disease—it’s a place where I can make friends and connect with people. After meetings, we’ll grab dinner, share some laughs, and just enjoy life. Rule 62 reminds me not to take myself too seriously, and I’m grateful for that. Thanks for letting me share.