She remembers a historical event by reflecting on where she has been and where she is today as a result of this Program. 

On September 11, 2021, many commercials commemorated a famous attack. One commercial’s words impacted me deeply: “Where were you on 09/11/2001 when the world changed?”

2001: At 12 years old, I was chasing a boy, sending him letters, fantasizing about him, even though he had told me, “I don’t like you.”

2021: There I was, 32 years old, involved with a cold, indifferent man who didn’t like me. 

I felt like I wasted 20 years chasing after men. I made a heartfelt decision to change. For a few months, I didn’t act out. I dedicated myself to my master’s degree, living abroad. Deep inside, though, I was still waiting for Prince Charming—who would give me all his love, heal my wounds, and make me feel whole. 

After arriving in a new country, I was in the same situation: chasing a man, waiting for his texts, crying because he only sought me for lust. Willpower didn’t work, changing countries didn’t work, and being “empowered” didn’t work either. Only the Steps and this loving Fellowship achieved what seemed impossible: giving me a peaceful life!

Today is September 11, 2025. I woke up sober and had a quiet, simple day. I don’t stalk men or sexualize my image. Life is not a heavy burden.

I’m doing my Higher Power’s Will: staying sober and being a channel of His love. This Program has transformed my life. It rescued me from pain and misery. Today, I have many friends all over the world. I do service, and I enjoy joyful personal relationships.

“We no longer live in a completely hostile world. We are no longer lost and frightened and purposeless” (12&12 105).

Every day, my life story is being rewritten. I live the promises, and I have a new Employer. I am not defined by my past. It doesn’t matter if I spent 20-50 years acting out. What matters is these 24 hours; I’m committed to doing my Higher Power’s will. That is enough for today!