Attitude is a word I thought I understood when I first arrived at Sexaholics Anonymous, but really I did not understand it at all. A new heart was something that I thought I did not need when I arrived at SA, but I was wrong. I had to keep an open mind and be willing to do the work (the Twelve Steps of Sexaholics Anonymous) in order to have that change of heart and attitude. I could not explain the change as it was happening. Only by looking back can I say, “Oh yes that is what you meant by change of heart and attitude.” I also know there is still more room for me to grow in this area.