“I am not affected by other people’s criticism because I am not affected by other people’s praise.”

Praise is wonderful. There are few greater joys than the affirmation and applause of my fellows. But what happens when the cheering stops? Where do I find my sense of self-worth when others fail to notice my good deeds? Or worse yet, when they humiliate or criticize me for my defects?

Acceptance of myself and others is what I strive for in recovery. There I find peace. Above all, I must remember that the God of my understanding is the only judge who matters. When I am secure in the affection of my Higher Power, I no longer need to demand it from others.

God, help me to remember that your belief in me is more important than anyone else’s, including my own. Help me to know I am secure in your love.