I have often heard old-timers say, “One day at a time.” At first I didn’t understand. I was struggling so hard to string together even a few days of sobriety. I thought that when I reached 30 days, I had arrived. I just didn’t understand what it meant to have sobriety, just for today.
Twice, I reached one-year anniversaries. I was excited to get my one-year chip. Then, three days after my first “birthday,” I lost my sobriety. I had been so focused on what I had achieved that I forgot that it is my God who keeps me sober and that sobriety is only for today. The second time that it happened was three days before my anniversary. All of my attention was on what I was going to be able to share with my group about having reached one year. I forgot that I am only promised what I need for today, not for tomorrow and certainly not for the next three days.
Now I understand what it means to only have today. I choose to not live in the past or in the future. I live in the present. And the little acronym ODAAT helps me to remember that.
Nancy S.