SA Stories

Yet

He realized that as long as he focuses on his program today, and not his program yesterday, Higher Power’s promises are both in the present and in the future.

By |2026-02-13T17:59:16-06:00February 9, 2026|Comments Off on Yet

Eureka!

SA helped her see more clearly how she was holding herself back from healing fully. I haven’t taken much time as of late to consider the role that trauma plays in my consistent relapses. I was abused sexually by my father at 13, and I had sexually abusive relationships from ages 19-22. I entered SA in July of 2021 without realizing my last relationship had ended with me being sexually assaulted. The brain is a funny organ like that.

By |2025-10-20T14:49:16-05:00October 7, 2025|Comments Off on Eureka!

Gift of Sobriety

She found the freedom to choose in sobriety. Sobriety is a gift that your wise decisions give you. Sobriety is not limited to stopping sexual relations with another person or with yourself—that is only the beginning. Sobriety is having sanity in the face of life. It is exercising the self-control that already resides within you, that was given to you by your Higher Power to choose between what is good for you and what harms you.

By |2025-10-20T14:50:03-05:00October 4, 2025|Comments Off on Gift of Sobriety

The Healing Began

As a result of working the Program, this member likes the man he is growing into. Before SA and recovery from chronic lusting and the acting out that followed, I was frequently lost in fantasy, on dating apps, or in an “intimate encounter.” The irony was, there was nothing intimate about it. This behavior eroded away my soul and made me feel deeply ashamed. It was also causing aggravation, fear, and intimidation–albeit unintentionally. Like any good ol’ sexaholic, I could not stop.

By |2025-09-07T14:53:20-05:00August 11, 2025|Comments Off on The Healing Began