In his article, “Raising My Hand: Swearing in Meetings”, Jack shares how swearing was a way to belittle himself and others. Has the language of shock been a part of your addiction? If so, did you use it as a way to take the edge off or to add the edge?

Have you considered what the language of shock and, at times, cussing does to unexpected people around you? Do those around you have the right to not be caught off guard in those ways?

How might using language that is considerate of others help establish the real connection? Have you experienced an environment of considerate language yourself?

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