B.T. of Salt Lake City, Utah writes, “I think now that I’ve been in SA for 2 years (it always seems to take 2 years) that I’m just getting to the program. I thought in the beginning that I didn’t really lust because I didn’t body watch but now I see that it was wanting people to think I was clever, smart, witty, to think I was so understanding, etc. on and on.
D.B. of Richmond, Virginia writes, “There have been many changes in my life as a result of SA. First and foremost, has been my admission and acceptance that I am an alcoholic. After admitting I was a sexaholic, I still had a deep pit in my gut that I was still not being honest with myself.
J.P. of Nashville, Tennessee says, “Nashville SA is small, but still there.”
R.S. of Marina del Rey, California writes, Last night I admitted I was a hateaholic.
B.S. of Stuart, Florida writes, “Thank you. Everything I get from you keeps me going. We have 2 meetings per week, 3 members. I am the old timer (6 mos. sobriety) so I need help from others.”
P.C. of St. Louis reports, “Four weeks ago I was introduced to SA. I frankly have found the program very beneficial and a source of strength. Although I am also a recovering alcoholic 5 1/2 years now since my last (hopefully) drink, I did not realize that SA was a disease like the alcoholic addiction.
SA Office Telephone. The SA office phone is now being answered during working hours. Nan, our non-sexaholic secretary, will be picking up the calls, unless she’s out getting the mail, etc. You can leave any messages with her without fear of jeopardizing your anonymity.
Jesse L. has made the suggestion that the writing and revision effort on the SA booklet should be frozen where it is, with the exception of going back to the original wording of the statement on sobriety and including the First Step Inventory.
Jesse L. has raised the question of going back to the previous wording of our sobriety statement on page 4 of the SA booklet. The revised statement currently reads:
We need stories from regular SA members with uninterrupted sobriety of one year or more according to our SA concept of sexual sobriety. This means no sexual experience with the self or others other than the spouse and progressive victory over lust for at least one year.
