Discussion Topic
(How) Do I use the Slogans in my daily life?
Dear ESSAY
I’ve read the letters of many imprisoned females seeking help for our addiction. I have had the privilege of sponsoring someone in prison, and it has been a gift and a blessing to my recovery.
Editors’ Corner
The Slogans are snippets of wisdom designed to be short and memorable enough to lodge in our forgetful and stubborn minds as we trudge the road of recovery.
There Is a God, and I’m Not Him
When I returned from a local SA convention yesterday, I felt reasonably happy, connected and peaceful—though not fully. The presence of one fellow had disturbed my serenity to such an extent that I had been struggling with obsessing about him and his behavior throughout the whole weekend.
It Works if You Work It
This is one of the program slogans that stuck in my mind after I attended my first SA virtual meeting here in the Philippines. I was afraid and hesitant to attend an SA meeting because I was in denial and doubtful that I am a sex addict, but still forced myself to join that meeting as I was afraid to lose my wife and kids
Cultivate an Attitude of Gratitude
My sponsor and members from my English-speaking home group suggested to me to list the things I am grateful for in my SA sobriety. They probably couldn't bear my complaining any longer, which might be why they suggested it—in an intention to shut me up a bit.
We Are as Sick as Our Secrets
Before coming into SA, I didn’t believe that lust was a big deal for me. I had masturbated all my life, sometimes using pornography. When my addiction was in full swing, I was acting out with other men four to six times a month. I was living what I thought was a successful double life—on one hand a successful educator, father, husband, and church leader, and on the other a committed sex addict.
Doing the Next Right Thing … When No One Is Watching
I love slogans. For my addled brain with the memory of a goldfish, they are pithy, easy to remember and when I receive the willingness, actionable. There are so many that readily come to mind, such as “One Day At A Time,” “Good Orderly Direction,” “Let Go and Let God,” and “Go Easy On Yourself.”
The Slogans Are Quick References Guides to Sanity
I have a fond history with the slogans—you might say that they have saved my life. In early AA recovery, my home group was “old school,” no sharing in meetings until you had 1 year of sobriety. (We could ask questions.)
عقبات أمام الرصانةِ العاطفية
طٌلب مني مؤخرًا كتابةُ مقال لمجلة "المقالة" عن الرصانة العاطفية. في البداية كان رد فعلي هو قول "لا". لقد أردت أن أقول لا لأنني شعرت ، في أعماقي ، أن معظم الناس في م.ج.م. يجدون صعوبة في الوصول إلى الرصانة العاطفية، لأنهم بالكاد يستطيعون الوصول إلى "الرصانة من الشهوة".
