Practical Tools

Время жить и отдавать

Дорогая порнография, Я должна сказать, что сейчас я делаю самую странную вещь в своей жизни, - я хочу за многое поблагодарить тебя. На сегодняшний день мы с тобой не виделись 126 дней (но кто считает), и я не буду скрывать, я ОЧЕНЬ скучаю по тебе. Сильно скучаю. Я даже считаю дни, видишь? Вот какой важной ты являешься была в моей жизни. И хотя я больше не хочу видеть тебя в моей жизни, было время, когда ты сыграла решающую роль и помогла мне выжить. Мы через многое прошли вместе и, хотя пришло время прощаться, я сначала должна выразить тебе свою благодарность.

By |2025-09-08T14:02:21-05:00August 10, 2024|Comments Off on Время жить и отдавать

Czas Żyć i Dawać

Drogie porno, Muszę przyznać, że choć to najdziwniejsza rzecz, jaką zrobię, to chciałabym ci podziękować za wiele rzeczy. Jak wiesz, nie utrzymujemy kontaktu od jakichś 126 dni (ale kto to by tam liczył), a ja nie chcę ściemniać – NAPRAWDĘ tęsknię za tobą. Naprawdę mocno. Widzisz? Nawet liczę dni! Oto jak ważne jesteś byłeś w moim życiu! Chociaż już cię nie potrzebuję, to jednak był taki czas, w którym byłeś kluczem do mojego przetrwania. Wiele razem przeszliśmy.

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Tempo per vivere e dare

Caro porno, devo dire che questa per me è la cosa più strana da fare in questo momento, ma voglio ringraziarti per un sacco di cose. Sai, non ci sentiamo da 126 giorni (ma chi li conta) e non ti mentirò: mi manchi. Un sacco. Vedi? Ho persino contato i giorni! Ecco quanto sei eri importante nella mia vita!!! E anche se non ti voglio più nella mia vita, c'è stato un periodo in cui sei stato fondamentale per la mia sopravvivenza. Ne abbiamo passate tante insieme e, anche se è arrivato il momento di salutarti, prima devo dirti grazie.

By |2025-09-08T14:04:16-05:00August 8, 2024|Comments Off on Tempo per vivere e dare

Il est temps de vivre et de donner

Chère Porno, Je dois dire que c'est la chose la plus bizarre à faire en ce moment, mais je veux te remercier pour beaucoup de choses. Tu sais, on n'a pas été en contact depuis 126 jours (mais qui fait les comptes), et je ne vais pas te mentir, tu me manques. Tu me manques énormément. Tu vois ? Je compte même les jours ! C'est dire l'importance que tu as eue dans ma vie ! !! Et même si je ne veux plus de toi dans ma vie, il fut un temps où tu étais essentielle à ma survie. Nous avons traversé beaucoup de choses ensemble et, bien qu'il soit temps de te dire au revoir, je dois d'abord te remercier.

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Time to Live and Give

Dear Porn, I gotta say that this is the weirdest thing for me to be doing right now, but I wanna thank you for lotsa stuff. Y’know, we haven’t been in contact now for like 126 days (but who’s counting), and I’m not gonna lie—I DO miss you. A whole lot. See? I even count the days! That’s how important you are were in my life!! And although I don’t want you in my life anymore, there was a time that you were crucial to my survival. We’ve been through a lot together and, although it’s time to say goodbye, I really must say thank you first.

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Turning Liability into Song

In my Step work I spent quite some time on my negative attitude towards women. There seemed to be very little trust. How could there be when there was no trust in me? I had always been switching from Mr. Know-It-All to Mr. Pitiful. In the one role being blind to the mess I made of my life and to how I hurt others, minors and women included, and if the pressure was too high, I became the victim that needed everybody’s help and understanding.

By |2025-09-09T14:27:57-05:00June 13, 2024|Comments Off on Turning Liability into Song

Practical Tools for Mixed SA Meetings

I came into Sexaholics Anonymous at age 31. I am 55 today. I've seen a lot of women come and go. Based on behaviors I’ve experienced during those 25 years, I’d like to share some practical recovery tools how I treat the opposite sex at our mixed meetings:

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The Tool of Service

I am convinced that the book Alcoholics Anonymous is correct when it says that “Selfishness—self-centeredness! That, we think, is the root of our troubles.” Selfishness is a spiritual malady, a spiritual problem rooted deeply in my being. I consider or evaluate everything by how it affects me. My fears are self-centered. A lot can be written about selfishness. It is enough to say that it is what causes my problems.

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The Daily Sobriety Renewal

Jim Egan played a big role in my early SA years. I loved his shares, which were always a loving, humble meander. I’m grateful to have learned from his shares to be loving and humble myself. Always with a smile on his face, he also helped me feel comfortable at the SA International Conventions I attended.

By |2025-09-09T15:16:08-05:00February 1, 2024|Comments Off on The Daily Sobriety Renewal