SA Stories

Bent Iron Made Straight

My name is Bill W. and I’m a sexaholic. My sobriety date is November 26, 1995. Until I was 73 years old, I was a chronic relapser. My addiction was costly. I ended up a disgrace to myself, my family, my church, and the religious order to which I belong.

By |2024-07-17T09:50:59-05:00September 25, 2014|Comments Off on Bent Iron Made Straight

Deaf, Sober, and Happy

My name is Pat and I’m a sexaholic. Last December I celebrated 17 years as a member of the SA Fellowship and 17 years of SA sobriety. I feel so blessed.

By |2024-09-09T14:02:42-05:00September 24, 2014|Comments Off on Deaf, Sober, and Happy

Freedom through the Steps

I’m Mark, a sexaholic, and I’ve been sexually sober since April 27, 2002. I would like to share about the disease of sexaholism in my life—but mostly I would like to share about the solution I’ve found in SA. And I would like to tell my story by walking through the Steps.

By |2024-08-19T13:51:19-05:00March 26, 2014|Comments Off on Freedom through the Steps

Surprised by Peace and Joy

My name is Marie W., I’m a sexaholic, and my sobriety date is August 20, 2005. I came into SA because I was afraid I would die if I didn’t. I had started including self-inflicted pain in my acting-out behaviors. Today, because of SA, I’m learning to let go of old behaviors and replace them with healthy ones.

By |2024-09-09T14:12:40-05:00December 27, 2013|Comments Off on Surprised by Peace and Joy

The Nature of My Lust

The first time I was confronted with a naked picture of a man and woman, it was in an educational book my mother gave me when I was in second grade. Despite experiencing the familiar rush of the forbidden and climbing on my roof with my friend to look at the pictures, I felt uncomfortable with the images.

By |2024-07-17T10:25:17-05:00December 27, 2013|Comments Off on The Nature of My Lust

In the Hands of My Higher Power

My descent into addiction closely parallels the development of the Internet. In 1992, Newsweek featured a cover story highlighting this developing phenomenon. Around the same time, my employer gave us Internet access, and I started reading erotic stories online.

By |2024-07-30T13:04:34-05:00December 27, 2013|Comments Off on In the Hands of My Higher Power

Rocketed Into a Fourth Dimension

My name is L.A. and my sobriety date is August 19, 2000. One of my favorite passages in the literature is a quote from the Big Book: “We have found much of heaven and we have been rocketed into a fourth dimension of existence of which we had not even dreamed. …

By |2024-07-30T13:05:07-05:00September 28, 2013|Comments Off on Rocketed Into a Fourth Dimension

A Journey of Hope and Strength

I’m Michael T., grateful to be sexually sober since April 10, 2011. SA has given me a better life than I could ever have imagined. I no longer fear everyone and everything. I no longer regret the past; I use my past as a tool to be helpful to others. I can practice patience and tolerance, and be a part of society. I learned all of these things from SA.

By |2024-07-17T12:09:39-05:00June 28, 2013|Comments Off on A Journey of Hope and Strength

Loved Back to Sobriety

I’m a grateful recovering sexaholic woman, sober since October 22, 2001. I was thrilled when I was asked to share my story at the January 2013 Convention in Atlanta. The last time I was in Atlanta was for the January 2002 Convention, when I had just returned to SA after a seven-year relapse.

By |2024-09-09T14:23:22-05:00March 1, 2013|Comments Off on Loved Back to Sobriety

Finally Free

I’m Robert, a grateful sexaholic. By the grace of God and the miracle of the SA program of recovery, I have not had to act out since October 10, 2010. I recently celebrated my second SA birthday, as well as the removal of my ankle bracelet. After three and a half years in prison and four years on parole, I am again a free man.

By |2024-07-17T13:16:35-05:00December 2, 2012|Comments Off on Finally Free