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I Am a Moth

This morning in the hybrid Manchester, US “Not a Glum Lot meeting,” we read the first story “I’m a Sexaholic” from Member Stories 2007. The text from The Real Connection today was entitled “Hidden Desires” and talked about riding a motorcycle too close to the edge of the Grand Canyon.

By |2025-09-12T15:56:46-05:00September 28, 2022|Comments Off on I Am a Moth

Absolute Honesty With Myself, My Sponsor, and My Higher Power

My job is to take care of a large property with an orchard, a garden, and a house. A few weeks ago, I found myself in a completely new situation I have never been in before.

By |2025-09-15T14:06:27-05:00September 25, 2022|Comments Off on Absolute Honesty With Myself, My Sponsor, and My Higher Power

There Is a God, and I’m Not Him

When I returned from a local SA convention yesterday, I felt reasonably happy, connected and peaceful—though not fully. The presence of one fellow had disturbed my serenity to such an extent that I had been struggling with obsessing about him and his behavior throughout the whole weekend.

By |2025-09-18T13:56:05-05:00August 2, 2022|Comments Off on There Is a God, and I’m Not Him

Cultivate an Attitude of Gratitude

My sponsor and members from my English-speaking home group suggested to me to list the things I am grateful for in my SA sobriety. They probably couldn't bear my complaining any longer, which might be why they suggested it—in an intention to shut me up a bit.

By |2025-09-18T13:56:30-05:00August 2, 2022|Comments Off on Cultivate an Attitude of Gratitude

What Do I Focus My Magnifying Mind On?

A few weeks ago, I heard someone from my faith tradition tell a story that really resonated with me, and that I have thought about every day since. I shared it at a meeting and it appeared to touch others as well. Therefore, I am very happy to share it with you.

By |2025-09-18T14:40:02-05:00May 31, 2022|Comments Off on What Do I Focus My Magnifying Mind On?