After SA first went national in June of 1981, another member and I spent a month visiting groups trying to get started around the country. (What a marvelous time we had! And we both got unlimited air mileage for $398, another of those small “coincidences” that we have been party to since we launched out on “a wing and a prayer.”)

Like just about everything else in SA, it seems the book “wasn’t supposed to happen that way.” Here’s how what we now are calling our SA booklet came about and is still coming about. It was written piece by piece over time, each piece responding to or arising from some need in the fellowship.

To All SA Members,
Hi everybody! And welcome to all the new members!

We were just about to get this letter out when we got a call from J.A. in Brunswick, Georgia, telling us about the new SA group there, which we didn’t even know existed. She was sharing a recent experience with me and then read what she’d written during it. I asked her if she’d share it with all of us in this letter.

1. Leaders lead and sharers share. Leaders of meetings are servants of that meeting; they don’t “carry” the meeting; they merely facilitate it.

Here are some principles thrown out for suggestion/feedback:
SA members commit themselves to SA Meetings. They attend every SA meeting they can. On time. Meetings; on time. Why this emphasis?

Under Traditions One and Three, each SA group has the right and responsibility to bring up issues that bear on membership, group unity, and meeting quality. The following are merely suggested for debate and feedback, supporting the idea that if we don’t look out for our unity — both group and SA as a whole — who will?

As we look at ourselves, we see we have a long way to go:
1. There are lots of newcomers (in many groups) and initial interest and even great honesty.

We’ve learned that earlier this year a writer for the pop sexology/“girlie” magazine press posed as a sexaholic and attended SA meetings in at least two cities. This man had requested an interview and used “dirty tricks” to try and force one. He was given the standard response that we are not granting interviews at this time, and we sent him our media form letter (copy enclosed).

The Phoenix-Tucson people tell us their December get-together is in the planning stages.

The word from the SLC people is that their June get-together was a resounding success.

1. The big change is that all quotes from the AA Big Book and Twelve and Twelve are in quotes with the credit line at the bottom of the page. AA is not letting us paraphrase their literature as they have in the past; they’ve changed their policy.

Dear Friends in SA,
This newsletter is going out to all groups on file at the General Service Office here in Simi Valley. It is also being sent to individual members who represent groups or potential groups for information as well as to individual SA members.

We’re asking sober SA members to send in personal articles telling of their experience, strength, and hope so we can see how people are doing and perhaps share them with others.

I’ve been rediscovering the second half of the First Step lately. My emotional life is unmanageable.

Most SA groups experience a common dilemma: Many walk through the doors, but few achieve lasting sexual sobriety. This matter is constantly on our hearts, and we should seek God individually and collectively in this matter.

The Salt Lake City, Utah groups are holding a combined get-together June 1-3 in Salt Lake City and are inviting all other SA members and any S-Anon spouses to join them in a retreat of meetings and fellowship.

Are you listed with GSO? If not, please provide us with the name, address and phone number of the group contact person for our GSO mailing list.

Perhaps now is the time for us not only to take an SA inventory, but for us to take our group inventories, based on the Twelve Traditions. How does my group rate when evaluated against the Twelve Traditions? Is our main purpose to carry the message of what we are to the sexaholic who still suffers?

Recently one or more members granted interviews with the press, which were published in a local newspaper but then picked up by other papers in the chain and by the wire services. One member’s first name and home address were listed in the newspaper article, and that member has been inundated with inquiries.